Dating a codependent


06-Mar-2019 03:08

I recall speaking to a woman, who was involved with the very last Narcissist I dated and she told me that after our Narcissist had hurt her again and again, by constantly blowing hot and cold and making it quite clear that he was never going to give her the relationship that she wanted, she had actually offered to be ‘friends with benefits,’ and even went so far as to tell him that, no guy would ever match up to him.

Consequently, he accumulates an assortment of people (Narcissistic Supply) he can turn to whenever he has a need for them.

He builds up a tolerance to people and the Narcissistic supply that he extracts from them.

Hoarders are afraid to throw anything away in case they have a use for it somewhere down the road.

She was so ready and willing to sell herself short, just to have a piece of him – any piece.

It’s almost like the Narcissist casts a spell on his victims, by emotionally extracting away their power, so they feel weak and helpless without him.Savannah Grey is a Freelance Writer, a Hypnotherapist, Consultant, Sports Fanatic, and Philosopher and has a degree in Psychology.



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