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I would wonder what qualities my friends and others had that I didn't, and believe that if I could just get a man to pay me some attention, the rest would fall into place.Then I realized ATTRACTION is about much more than just ATTENTION...I'm going to be honest here, changing who you are will work for a while, and may get you successfully through the initial attraction and past the first few dates, but that's as far as it's going to take you.
That there's something wrong with you the way you are, and that the only way you can get a man is by changing.
But in time I realized that love isn't about "luck" or "love at first sight," it's not about being his version of the ideal woman, and it's not about using your unhappy childhood or a bad experience with a guy from your past as an excuse or justification for your current dating dilemma.
To get the RIGHT man and succeed in seduction and relationships, I had to realize it all starts with ME and MY attitude and irresistible attraction mindset.
I had no trouble getting a guy's attention, but the ones I seemed to attract weren't after commitment.
I would tell myself that if I tried hard enough and became the woman I thought he wanted me to be, eventually I would strike it lucky and find a nice one. Does shyness, fear, and lack of conversation skills get in the way of you having the love and relationship you really want? Your fears and limitations are not only causing you to attract the wrong kind of men, they are going to cause you problems with attracting the RIGHT man, keeping his attention, and getting him to commit when he comes along.