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It was frustrating that I was expected to be the only one willing to experiment sexually and that my then-boyfriends couldn't trust me enough to respect their boundaries.Still, when I told my male friends about what was happening in my sex life, they weren't surprised.Because he was still pretty new to being a sub, I felt more comfortable allowing the relationship to progress.I felt safer, realizing we would be experiencing our sexual awakenings together, in a sense.He was visibly relieved to see me yet also nervous.When I made him go into the restroom and change into a pair of my panties I'd brought for him, he stumbled.For example, he told me he liked to watch joi porn.After a quick search, I discovered the world of "jerk off instruction." I'd later use the genre as a tool to punish him.
I wondered what else I could get away with making him do.
So when I received a message from a white man in his early twenties asking if I wanted deep conversation or a sub, I decided to say "fuck it" and go for it.