How to avoid dating an abusive creep
If you are constantly feeling these emotions, they have a hold on you.
You can’t begin living life in a new way if any part of you holds on to the old ways.
Find someone who can help you process and work though the discomforts of your situation.Because the abuser suffers from internal discomfort and conflicts they don’t know how to address, no amount of logic, submissiveness or kindness will be enough to compensate or satisfy their insecurities.They are not seeking to understand or respect others because they do not fully understand or respect themselves.Every deserves the opportunity to allow themselves to change. The next step is to get out of the abusive relationship. It’s hard to let go of traumatic memories, raise self confidence and self esteem and move forward with life again if someone is still holding you down.
While it is not always easy to do, you have to decide it’s time to move on, to put your needs front and center.Next identify the emotions you experience from the abuse.