Older women and younger men dating sites
So I dress a little classier, talk a little slower, drop the energy level down just a little, talk more about the wisdom I’ve learned over the years, and exhibit other older-guy behaviors.
In other words, all the things you would never do if you were on a date with an over-33 woman (because then she’ll shove you in Make Him Wait zone).
Mistake Number 3: Not Paying Attention To Personal Appearance I’ve already addressed this point before, including in one of the links above, so I’m just going to summarize it here.
Some older guys think they can wing it with their personal appearance and look just like a normal, every day guy just like they did back when they were 25.
Mistake Number 2: Acting Like A Creepy Older Man, i.e.
Being Horny Or Sexual Too Fast One of the greatest pieces of seduction advice I’ve ever heard was to “risk creepy”.
You take care of your physical appearance more than you did when you were a younger dude. I’ve made numerous posts about this lately, so click around this blog and take a look at a few if you have not read them yet. This does not mean you need to look like George Clooney.Being an older man, but acting like a younger man (or worse, lying about your age) doesn’t make any sense.You are destroying the very thing these Type 2s crave.Younger women, even Type 2s, are hypersensitive about creepy older men, as well they should be (for their own safety reasons).
Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, especially if you’re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.The good news is that the world is filled with super hot Type 2s and Type 3s, and I’m talking about what most men would consider 9s and 10s. Whenever I go out on a first date with a VYW, not only do I the older man aspect.