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I know some may be thinking, “WOW all this happened because of hair” but just as casually as someone can say “hair is just hair” for many, many others hair holds deep wounds, inflicting a self-conscious pain that may hold an individual back on what makes them beautifully unique because they are so focused on their insecurities.I definitely now can look back and find some of my actions amusing in what I felt I had to hide in stifling my hair regimen in order to please a man, including my night time routine of wearing a scarf daily and rocking styles I thought appeased others because the styles I have always been attracted to were never of the “norm”.From a personal standpoint I can relate regarding hair.When I first met my man almost 4 years ago I was still dealing with my own insecurities regarding texture and was rocking a 4a weave at the time.After facing lots of troubles and problems, she finally was inspired by a sign on the bus.Then she started to move against the violence and torture she had. Finally she joined Medgar Evers College situated in Brooklyn, New York and then after she graduated Summa Cum Laude.The weave in my case was a physical reflection of my insecurities, symbolizing a cocoon encasing the real beauty inside.
That’s why we have a weave, we’re wearing Spanx and everything is ‘fine.’ If you’re not willing to let your partner see your cellulite or know your biggest fears, then you aren’t really ready to share yourself…” –Iyanla Vanzant In an age when table toppling and drink throwing have almost become a standard on television, life coach and television phenom Iyanla Vanzant entertains through empowerment and enlightens with love on her hit series, Iyanla, Fix My Life, on OWN.
When he came back he absolutely LOVED my hair and was boggled by my insecurities, but truth be told if he didn’t I was at a point in my life where a transition was taking place, called love concerning my own hair and I was tired of altercations due to fear of others opinions.